Nancy Moore Ruskin

Nancy Moore Ruskin died January 29. She was 86.

Nancy was born in Utica, New York, to John and Margaret Moore, and spent the early part of her childhood in nearby Clinton. In 1943, the family moved to Swarthmore, where her father taught at Swarthmore College. She attended Antioch College in Yellow Springs, Ohio, where she met her first husband, William Lasersohn. They married in 1955 and moved to Cleveland, Ohio, where she taught elementary school and he attended medical school. They later moved to the Zuni Indian Reservation in New Mexico, where he worked for the Public Health Service. They returned to the Cleveland area in 1963. Settling in Shaker Heights, Nancy concentrated on raising their three children, Peter, Mark, and Robin, while Will went into medical practice. The couple divorced in 1977, and Nancy became a single mom.

In the mid-1970s, Nancy returned to school, earning a master’s degree from the School of Applied Social Sciences at Case Western University. She then began a career as a social worker in child psychiatry at University Hospitals in Cleveland. Trained in a Freudian framework, she eventually became deeply discontented with the field, as talk-based therapy was increasingly replaced with medication. In 1991, she married her second husband, Arnold Ruskin, and moved to La Cañada, California, to live with him. During that period, Nancy and Arnie traveled extensively, visiting Russia, China, Costa Rica, and many European countries. Their years together were happy.After Arnie died in 2006, Nancy returned to the Philadelphia area to live in the Kendal at Longwood retirement community in Kennett Square, where she remained for the rest of her life. A member of the Society of Friends since childhood, Nancy was rarely active in Friends meetings, but had a strong sense of Quaker identity, and stood in firm support of Quaker values of peace, equality, and justice. She enjoyed film, literature, and music, and took several courses in music and art history. She also enjoyed eating out and trying different cuisines — but, due to an allergy, was always adamant about avoiding garlic and onions.Nancy is survived by her sister, Eleanor Barr; her children, Peter, Mark, and Robin Lasersohn; and her grandchildren, MJ Eckhouse, Xyl Lasersohn, Meg Rumsey-Lasersohn, Hallie Rumsey-Lasersohn, and Nathan Lasersohn.In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Nancy's memory to the American Friends Service Committee at afsc.org/give, and/or to the Kendal at Longwood Reserve Fund (which assists residents). You can donate to Kendal at kcc.kendal.org or by sending a check payable to "Kendal-Crosslands Communities," with "Kendal Reserve Fund in memory of Nancy Ruskin" on the memo line. Mail to Stephanie Cory, Kendal-Crosslands Communities, P. O. Box 100, Kennett Square, PA 19348.